Choosing the Right Kind of Life in Thailand
I’m beginning to settle into the life I’ve found myself living here in Thailand. The choices in front of me seem stark: I could chase the chaos of Phuket, with its endless nightlife and temptations, or I could embrace the quieter, more grounded rhythm of Nakhon Si Thammarat. For me, the decision is clear. I’ve chosen the latter — a life rooted in simplicity, community, and the discipline of doing things the right way. But that choice comes with its own challenges. I’ve always had a tendency to insist on doing things properly, with clarity and integrity. It’s a strength, but it can also be a stumbling block. In my first marriage, that insistence became an Achilles’ heel. The pursuit of “right” sometimes created friction, and I don’t want to repeat that mistake. Here, in this new chapter, I’m learning balance. Doing things right doesn’t have to mean doing them perfectly. It means doing them with intention, with respect for the people around me, and with a willingness to adapt when life d...